“Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.” Philippians 2:4
Our world doesn’t understand this. We like to believe that we intrinsically look out for others. However, more often than not, we look to our own interests only. God calls believers to stand out from the world and its selfishness. The church should certainly look different in this area.
In one of our Philippians messages, I recently shared a few ways we can practically consider others.
•Pray specifically for others. (Ephesians 6:18)
Prayer unites our hearts in such a unique way. Lifting others to God, interceding for your brothers and sisters, shows humility.
•Give up your preferences for unity. (Romans 15:1)
You know, I don’t have to have my way all the time. Serving alongside others for the glory of God for sure helps you understand this. My way of doing this isn’t the only way, or always the best way.
•Serve and be generous in hidden ways. (Matthew 6:3)
Do we only serve and do things that build unity when others can publicly see it? Look for quiet, anonymous ways to serve another today.
•Speak words that build others up. (1 Thessalonians 5:11)
Go out of your way to honor others, to reaffirm your love and unity with them. Not only to their faces, but also to those around you. Are you known for speaking well of others?
•Choose forgiveness quickly. (Ephesians 4:32)
Jesus always shows us grace and care. Extend grace, and believe the best of others. Give the benefit of the doubt when someone hurts or offends you. And if you can’t work it out between you and the Lord, then go to them humbly. Equally important, have a heart to reconcile for God’s glory.
Also, be quick to apologize, too! Apologize for any unintended hurt you may have caused, for the sake of unity.
•Celebrate others’ successes & mourn their losses. (Romans 12:15)
Are we aware of what others are going through so we can rejoice and mourn with them when they need it? Or, are you just wrapped up entirely in your own life and world? Let’s specifically look for ways to be involved in others’ interests.
•Seek to understand before being understood. (Proverbs 18:13)
Good listening goes a long way in caring for someone. And putting their needs before your own. It shows the relationship is important to you. Also, don’t just wait for your turn to talk about yourself. Be good at asking questions and drawing others out.
May we, by God’s grace, forever look out for the interests of others. To love them, be united with them, and bring God glory.
Grace and peace,
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