“For I have no one like him, who will be genuinely concerned for your welfare. For they all seek their own interests, not those of Jesus Christ.” — Philippians 2:20-21
In April, my sons and I watched part of the Masters golf tournament. While watching, I realized something strange was happening; no one had a cell phone. The tournament had banned them from the event. The TV commentators even mentioned that people were really present in the moment.
My wife substitute teaches part-time. This spring, she taught at one high school in town, where the students were engaged, talking to each other, and looking at one another. Instead of being distracted and isolated on their cell phones. She subsequently learned the school had a no-phone policy. When the students arrive at the campus, they put their phones into locked bags until school is over.
(In addition, while researching for this blog, I read about a number of famous musicians and artists who are asking their fans to put away their cell phones in order to be present.)
And recently, at our teen conference, we had an electronics fast. For the most part, the young people put their phones away. As a result, it was so refreshing to see so many young adults talking to each other, playing games, and enthusiastically worshipping. It was also very special to see everyone enjoying the conference.
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Now, you should know I use my phone constantly throughout the day. Between calls, texts, and emails, it is indeed a critical part of my pastoring our church. However, the verse above in Philippians gives me pause. Paul commends Timothy because he is genuinely interested in the welfare of the people in the church. That makes him different than others. Additionally, he is locked into the needs of the people around him.
There are many, many aspects to how we do this. But our little electronic devices can (at times) be a real hindrance to connection. Maybe we need multiple digital fasts throughout our day? Does our cell phone help us connect when we’re talking to our spouse, or eating a family meal? Or what about as we’re playing a game with our children, or talking to someone in Small Group? Not to mention when we meet that new person at church? In other words, do our cell phones enable us to show real concern and interest for those around us?
Certainly, our phones can be incredible tools for connection. But, we need to consider the times when they limit our concern and welfare for the people around us. And definitely do something about it!
Striving to be present.
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